Author Honey Badger

Refusal is not immaturity. It is not laziness. It is not a lack of healing.

In many spaces, pain is treated like currency. The more you share, the more legitimacy, attention, or compassion you receive. This creates a quiet pressure to perform suffering in ways that are legible and moving to others. But when pain must be offered in exchange for care, something essential is lost. Support becomes conditional. Listening becomes transactional. Presence becomes dependent on productivity.

Sometimes pain lives in the body without words. Sometimes it shows up as fatigue, silence, anger, numbness, or fear. Sometimes it resists explanation entirely.

Belief, in this framework, is conditional. It must be earned through detail. Through exposure. Through a willingness to reopen wounds so that others can inspect them and decide whether they qualify as real.

Begin by finding a position that feels supportive—seated or lying down. Let your body be held by whatever is beneath you. Take a gentle breath in through the nose…And allow the exhale to fall out naturally through the mouth. No effort. No forcing

Trust is the foundation of every meaningful relationship. When that trust breaks, especially at the hands of those closest to us, the pain runs deep. For many, betrayal by men in their lives—whether family members or partners—can leave lasting scars. When those who should protect and support us fail, it can feel like the world has turned its back.

I do not need men in my life, the weight of their presence, a burden too heavy for fragile faith, shadows that darken the sunlight, fading laughter into distant echoes.

Despite growing awareness and advocacy from various organizations and individuals dedicated to this cause, survivors of MST continue to face significant challenges, including neglect, disbelief, and even retaliation from their peers and superiors. The stigma surrounding MST often leads to an environment where victims feel isolated and unsupported, further compounding their trauma.

Survivors of military sexual assault have bravely stepped forward to share their harrowing experiences through various mediums, including books, documentaries, and personal testimonies. These narratives serve not only as a form of catharsis for the survivors but also as crucial educational tools for the public and policymakers alike.

The Epstein scandal exposed a horrifying network of abuse and exploitation involving powerful individuals. Yet, despite overwhelming evidence and public outrage, the US Government has shown a disturbing lack of action toward holding those implicated accountable. This silence and inaction send a clear message: survivors of rape are not a priority.

Sexual assault survivors in the military, on university campuses, and during their childhood face a harsh and often unforgiving reality: the very systems that are designed to protect them frequently fail to provide the necessary support and justice. This deeply troubling phenomenon has been documented extensively, revealing a pattern of neglect and institutional inadequacy that leaves survivors feeling abandoned and voiceless

Military sexual assault affects thousands of service members every year, casting a long shadow over the armed forces. Despite the military’s core values of honor, courage, and commitment, which are supposed to guide the behavior and ethics of all personnel, many survivors of these heinous acts face significant challenges that exacerbate their trauma.

These brave individuals, who have dedicated their lives to serving and protecting their country, are often met with a system that not only overlooks their suffering but actively perpetuates injustice through victim blaming, retaliation, and emotional abuse.

The United States faces a troubling contradiction. While billions of dollars flow to foreign aid, such as support for Ukraine and illegal aliens, many veterans who have served this nation, especially survivors of military sexual trauma (MST), remain neglected. Among them is Julie Jewels Smoot, a veteran who endured rape by a fellow service member and faced victim blaming, retaliation, and emotional abuse. Despite the Democrats’ public stance as champions of survivors and advo

Healing from trauma is a personal journey filled with highs and lows. It takes time, energy, and a willingness to face difficult emotions. While it can feel overwhelming, this journey also opens the door to discovering what truly ignites your passion. By embracing your interests, you can navigate through the challenges of healing and emerge stronger and more fulfilled

Despite the profound and often devastating impact of rape on individuals, survivors frequently find themselves grappling with overwhelming financial burdens that can exacerbate their already challenging circumstances. The repercussions of such a traumatic experience extend far beyond the immediate physical and emotional toll; they also manifest in significant financial strains that can last for years.

Sexual assault in the military is a serious crisis that deserves immediate attention and action, not only from lawmakers but also from leadership at the highest levels of government. The lack of a robust response to this epidemic is indicative of a broader cultural problem that prioritizes the reputation of the military over the safety and rights of individual service members.

Many survivors have poignant stories tied to educational institutions, such as the University of Cincinnati, which serve as both a backdrop for their academic pursuits and a stage for their personal struggles. Within these walls, crucial support systems are expected to provide help during crises, yet all too often, they fall short of fulfilling this vital role. For instance, a 2020 study revealed that only 24% of students felt that their school responded adequately to reports

Healing is a complicated journey. It often involves navigating through pain, confusion, and resilience. For many survivors of sexual assault, overcoming trauma is made even tougher by a world that may be hostile and unyielding. This is a powerful narrative of courage—one woman’s fight against self-harm and victim blaming.

Self-harm, often misunderstood, is not merely an act of destruction but rather a complex form of expression that can serve various psychological functions for the individual. For many survivors, the physical pain inflicted through self-harm can sometimes feel more manageable than the emotional pain they are grappling with.